In a British TV special with host Jeremy Kyle screened yesterday, she described the moment when she revealed all.
She told him: “I knew the kids were going to watch the film and there was a reference to the tape in the movie and they’re that age and, you know, people are going start saying things.
“I just said, ‘Look, Mummy and Daddy were massively in love, we videotaped everything, everything was videotaped, and you’re probably going hear about something at school.’”
Pam, who’s been married three times, also opened up about drugs, revealing she had tried cocaine and “dabbled” with lesser substances.
“‘Well I’ve tried it and I don’t like it,” she admitted.
“I’m completely hyper and it actually doesn’t work for me.”
Talking about her ex-husband Tommy, Pammi says their chequered history impacts her relationships with new men.
She’s currently dating electrician Jamie Padgett and admits the pair have argued about the Motley Crue drummer.
Pammi said: “I’m still fighting with my boyfriend over him, he wont go away.
“(I say) ‘Don’t you realise that after 15 years this is the relationship that Tommy and I have. If we wanted to be together, we’d be together!’ (It’s a black cloud) over any relationship. It’s horrible.
“When Tommy and I are together it’s still apparent that there’s that chemistry and love for each other that transcends all the bad stuff. It’s a unique relationship.”
But Pammi reckons Jamie will finally confine Tommy to the past.
“I’ve got a real tough boyfriend that’s put his foot down for both of us.”
And speaking of Tommy this is what he’s munching on as of lately. She’s an italian blonde (Ciara Salvade) with sizeable cannons and a great fondness for stripping. Sounds like Tommy has found his new soulmate everyone!
She hasn’t had a drink in a month and that to her constitutes not being a drinker? hahaha. Pamela needs to go bury herself in a whole somewhere she’s looking sad and worn…