Whether you admit or not, not everyone has the equal drive for intimacy and sometimes, being in a relationship long enough will make you lose the drive to get intimate even though you still love your partner 100 percent.
So how do happy couples do it? How do they keep the fire alive? Here are some tips to keep the relationship steamy.
1. Redecorate the bedroom, revamp your wardrobe
Sometimes, being stuck with seeing the same thing, wearing the same clothes, smelling the same perfume kills the excitement. So to reignite the fire, experts’ advice couples to try and change their routine. First. Is to redecorate the bedroom, change the colors to more playful shades, buy better curtains or get new soft and fluffy pillows. You can even change your whole skin care products like bath soaps, shampoos and lotions. You’ll never know it’ll be the start of a new and exciting bedroom life!
2. Tackle Problems Head on
Couples in long relationships have experienced a lot of road blocks in achieving an active sex life. So if you’re having difficulty with your manhood, or if there’s a pain inside your intimate parts, then these things shouldn’t be ignored. Sometimes, the root of the problem is being ignored. The key is to deal with any problem head on so you won’t have to make it worse. Who knows, it’s just something that a little medicine can cure.
3. Try to be your best version for your partner
Keep going to the gym, dress nicely, prepare for dates. There’s nothing more attractive than a partner who keeps on getting better for the sake of his or her partner. You’ll never get tired of your partner if he or she is always on top of his or her game. To reciprocate, you’ll also try to become the best version of yourself. This way, you both will never get tired of each other and will continue to surprise and excite each other.