The Gentleman’s Guide To A Threesome

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You feel like you are a good guy. You’re a one woman kind of man. You go to work every day and bring home the bacon. You text your girlfriend multiple times a day, send her flowers when there is no occasion, put up with her dogs you can’t stand and watch Devious Maids with her on Sunday nights. All in all you are a one in 1 million catch for any woman. Sometimes you feel like there is something she could do for you. You want to bring it up, but don’t know how. Your girlfriend is cool or otherwise you wouldn’t be with her, but you’re not sure if she’s “that” cool. You want to ask her if she would ever have a threesome. It could go one of two ways, she thinks you are a creep, or would be down with trying it out. Most likely it’s the first option if you don’t approach it carefully.

Before bringing any of this up you have to see how she feels about other women. Has she ever kissed a girl or dated another female? If so you have a better chance of fulfilling your fantasy. You want to make sure you have been dating long enough, or know each other well enough that it won’t break you up. Approach it casually like during a movie that you are watching together. When an attractive woman comes on screen, say something like “ I would love to see the two of you together” focus the attention on how sexy she is, the other woman is more of an accessory to add to her sex appeal. Most likely she will respond in some way like “ewe” or it peaks her interest. If you get the second response response you can proceed. First ask her if she has ever had a threesome. If she has them you have a pretty good shot of getting one. If she has not, you can say something like “I know it sounds cliche, but a fantasy of mine has always been to be with the woman I love and another woman. I think it would be an incredibly sensual and enlightening sexual experience.”

If she is open to it make sure you bring up ground rules before she does. Things like not doing it with anyone either of you know beforehand, that she is in complete control of the situation, and she picks the female. You never want to make her feel like you want to cheat on her. Do you want her to know this is an experience that you want to share with her together and only her. Let her know that she can back out at any time and you won’t be angry. Make sure she knows it is a one time thing and be prepared if you do bring it up that she may want to do the same thing back and be with two guys. Make sure you have an answer ready for this fair is fair but if you don’t feel comfortable with doing that if she asks then you shouldn’t have to. Same with her.

A threesome is meant to be an experience that you have together that can be something that adds spice to a relationship. Being clear on boundaries is the most important thing. Talk about beforehand certain things that you will or won’t do with the other person.Go out together and let her make the introductions. Let her lead all of the conversations with the other female. It is something you were going to want to talk about for a while before it actually happens to see where she actually stands over the long run. If you talk about it more than three times and her attitude is still the same and you can proceed with going out and starting to see if she’s comfortable around other females. Remember she is in control at all times for this to work out, and if it does you are in for a hell of a night.

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